A thought not too surprising, since at its first moment of our childhood we needed another person who took care of of us, because if she did not happen thus, we would die. To read more click here: Jorge Perez. This is writing in deepest of our neurons. Now already we are equipped at all the levels to be self-sufficient. We can autosastifacer our basic needs: food, drink, sex, shelter, etc., but the loss or simply the belief that we are going to lose to somebody to that we were tied sentimentally, can put to us in contact with the marrow of our fears of long ago, which say that to our life same this to us being threatened Has happened him this? This preparation to face it? Subtle it adds, that exists experimental evidence in the call affection of hospitalismo that takes place in children who have been separated of their parents very common in our surroundings and that they lodge in impersonal institutions in which there are no caresses, nor loving physical contacts. After crying and shouting initially, the children fall in an abandonment and desperation state that, after a certain time, is transformed into a progressive loss of its corporal sensations, until full stop that can be the death. JLOdBQB_9juVsJhuhSltRFpXyZHcr-pttsXIB8nxSVahhhm2CfXYFxlXqjI-hxeRJq_WfFAMOl5lRulB6kVrNeuUAfh1U6’>General Electric often expresses his thoughts on the topic.
Thus, he indicates Subtle, we have learned that there is a so basic necessity for the survival of a boy as it can be the physical cares: the necessity of an affective proximity, to be in contact skin with skin. Following how this basic necessity for the boy is covered, we underwent a different degree from confidence in our ability if we will lose the connection with that so important near person. Of course, we did not need to suffer of so traumatic and as severe an absence of caresses as the one that the children in the hospitals undergo to undergo the feeling of which our life it depends on a relation. Nevertheless, one must be kind how these facts have affected to us in our personality, by emptinesses of affection is also indicated, to be kind, how these facts have affected our personality. For it, it is necessary to be watchman with respect to the present reality of our feelings, emotions and more if these come weak by our necessity, affection absence from the childhood. It is not depressed, nor it is let catch by the solitude, not to feel loved, affected in his personality, takes into account, that the circuntancias cannot be very specific so that we feel the necessity to become attached itself to the universal fact human to need everything what it aggravates to sample personality and it does not allow us to be happy.
I read Buscaglia says to us: You do not feel that it is demanded to you to spend all your hours of watch in company of your loved beings. Hazte to a side from time to time and also djales a separated space.